Dating & Relationships

I cancelled one of my direct debits, I will need to proove someone when exactly I did this. Will my bank give me this information in writting?

When i log in to my bt account online, i cant see where to change the payment date, or on my natwest online banking?

thank you

I know that BMI fly direct from Manchester on certain days but not the dates I want.

I know that BMI fly direct from Manchester on certain days but not the dates I want.

I’m in my busiest year of high school and graduation is coming up soon so I want to look my best, plus be healthy and improve my life and mental well-being.

I’m on the tall side of 5’6′ and weigh close to 195 pounds. My frame size is on the small size of average as well.

I have a lot of bulky muscle on me as well. I don’t really exercise that much, so is it possible that I could cut out some food in order to reduce the mass? (I really do look ridiculous because the muscle bulk does not suit me at all)

Also how different would I look if I lost 80 pounds?

How much weight would I lose by the following dates if I lose around 2lbs per week:

December 24th
February 14th
April 15th
May 30th
June 25th
August 25th

Thanks for the help.

Hi – I’m trying to work out if this guy is genuine or not. He says he’s a construction engineer, a couple of weeks of online chats after our first contact on a dating website, he has to go off to Nigeria on a 3 week contract! And low and behold, he has problems with customs that require payments he hasn’t budgeted for…he can’t access his bank in the UK from West Africa so which bank do I use? With an idea of getting money to me, then I can get it to him……. I wasn’t born yesterday, would never agree to this no matter how genuine he seems (and boy has he seemed genuine!) but I am wondering if any other females have come across his name, or profile on Dating Direct? I am curious….plus now at least if another woman searches his name they will hopefully come across this!

Anyone heard of him? He professes to live in Cheetham Hill, Manchester. Thanks!
You know they say these scammers steal models pictures, he doesn’t look like a model, just a slightly better looking than average guy, not someone out of the ordinary! Funny how I haven’t heard from him tonight…….
I will add of course that if it’s someone trying to scam me, I know that they will have made up this name! It’s just the name he gave me after a couple of emails on the dating website! Funny how he was so keen to chat on hotmail, I hadn’t realised at the time that scammers prefer that because chat on dating sites is recorded I think!
Ghana Banana thank you! You have been a wealth of information! Definitely top answer so far (and I doubt that anyone could improve on yours!) I wonder though, if it’s the same man using that name all the time, or if other scammers use it too? I guess it’s not THAT common a name so probably just him, or a team if it’s such big business! Oh, if only we knew his real name!!! One thing he did a lot on his dating profile was use question marks where an apostrophe should have gone – like "I?ve" instead of I’ve. I love your name by the way! Thanks again x

Well hi there!
I’ve found a WWII British Tommy style helmet that I’m thinking of buying. It 20 bucks, plus 20 for shipping. There is black marker on the front with head size and a small dent in the front. Would that be a good purchase? It’s DATED 1941 BY G.S W..AND CO.MARK 1. I’m convinced this is a war dent as well…..hehehe….how can I fix the small dent if I wanted and how can I take off the faded writing if I wanted?
Thanks
When I say dated, I mean it’s stamped in the brim….

Ok, we chatted about 9 months ago for about a week and a half. I explained to him that I would prefer to meet in public BEFORE anything else. He ‘said’ he was ok with this. Well, a week later… he pretty much fell off the side of the Earth! I’d be on line and see him log off and he didn’t email me any more….

Flash forward to two weeks ago… I joined a dating site a and this person pops up, he had the same name as the other guy, but I didn’t give it any thought. Well, he gave me his yahoo messenger contact info and I messaged. He messaged me back and low and behold, IT’S THAT GUY! Well, of course, I am saying, in my head, "What the hell? Doesn’t he know I’m that woman he totally forgot about??" (My pic is on my yahoo messager and at the dating site…)

Well, the next time I am on Yahoo Messanger, he pops up and says hey. So, I explained to him how I didn’t realize he was the same guy from eight months ago. At that point I had NOTHING more to say to him. I feel he had his shot! So, I pretty much told him I was busy and I logged off. (I didn’t really feel like getting into the whole thing with him. I’ve done that in the past and guys just argue with you about how busy they got…I am done with the crap excuses…) I can’t stand flaky people no matter what the conditions. If I am not interested in someone, I let them know right away. I communicate. I don’t just stop communicating…

For those of you chatting on line and attempting on line dating, how do you handle these kinds of situations? Have you ever had these kinds of situations….?

I’m on-line dating someone for 2 1/2 months and have met her personally. I like her a lot. And would say I love her as a person. Not in love — just love her personality. She just got out of a 3 month relationship and told me she doesn’t consider us exclusive and will date other people if they came along. However she’s telling me she’d like to live with me, would like to go on a honeymoon with me (and she’s excited about it), would like to go to England with me to meet her family. I don’t understand why all the mixed feelings. I’m confused. I won’t date multiple people at the same time because I fell in love with two at the same time and they with me. It was the most horrible thing I had to do when I picked one and had to hurt the other. So, my question is how do I react to my new friend, and what should I do about it? I want to pursue this long term with her.
Also, we talk to each other on the phone almost every night. We don’t write each other online anymore because her schedule’s too busy — she has two jobs and is taking care of her kids (1 and 2 years old) 50% of the time.

OK. I am talking to this guy ive met on line. we met about 3 or 4 times over the past 3 months.. our first conv o was really great but ever since then he only sends text messages, and when i call he does not answer.. but when we hang out he is really affectionate.
OK so lately ive been really pissed he doesn’t call me.. i mean at least answer the phone when I call right? so i send him a text asking why he doesn’t answer my calls..no reply but he replies to other texts… and then i sent a email asking why he doesn’t answer.. i saw he read the email but he didn’t reply… so now i think i made a mistake by seeming too needy.. and bossy because i am always asking him to come over and yesterday he send a text saying "haven’t you forgot i work all day sunday? i go to sleep saturday early" but then in the same text he said he missed me..I’m confused.. the on line dating site shows that he goes on line like everyday but if he likes me wouldn’t he talk to me?